--On Tuesday, July 2, 2019 20:44 -0400 Alissa Cooper <alissa@xxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > Hi Mike, > > As I mentioned to you off-list, your request below for Ben to > use his inside voice is demeaning, unprofessional language > that is not suitable for the IETF discussion list, per RFC > 3005. Repeated use of unprofessional language may be deterring > others from voicing their opinion for fear of being > disrespected. It is important that everyone in the community > feels comfortable enough to express their own views on the > IETF discussion list if they choose to do so. >... Alissa, I find your note to be a little bit troubling at best. In the hope of encouraging a discussion that will move us forward, let me try to explain why. It is obvious that a number of members of the community have found the situation with the RFC Editor, certainly including the causes and circumstances of Heather's decision to not seek a contract renewal beyond this calendar year, quite problematic. Several people have leapt to conclusions about what happened and why and then charged of in pursuit of whatever assumptions that has led them to. I think that is behavior we should be discouraging whether we have specific rules against it or not and, to their credit, several members of the community have made that point. Others, including Mike, have tried to ask questions that have seemed to me to be targeted at getting a better understanding of what happened, in what sequence, and, more generally, about whether the actions taken were appropriate and consistent with good practices. To the extent to which the IETF still believes that it is open, operates by bottom-up consensus, and that Nomcom-appointed or otherwise selected leadership are accountable to the participants, such questions must be appropriate and the community has the right to expect that they will be answered in a clear and forthright way rather than, e.g., requiring that essentially the same question be asked multiple times. If there are circumstances that prevent such answers, they should be identified and explained clearly enough that the community can evaluate the criteria and whether they are being properly applied. I don't know whether you and others in the leadership agree but, to me, failure to respond clearly and completely to such questions, especially when they are posed by members of the community with long and significant records of contributions to the IETF and the Internet are fully as disrespectful, demeaning, and unprofessional as, an unfortunate choice of vocabulary or phrasing in response to what can be reasonably perceived as evasive, contradictory, or incomplete answers. I certainly don't want to encourage either behavior, but I hope that, when discouraging one, we don't lose sight of the other and potential cause end effect relationships, especially when people having to asking questions several times to get meaningful and interpretable answers (if they get them at all) can discourage participation in the IETF and open discussion and dialogue at least as effectively as other types of disrespectful behavior. Part of what motivated this note was thinking about a key bit of IETF history. As I'm sure you know, the POISED WG and creation of the contemporary IETF were initiated by a series of events and observations. One of the critical ones, at least in my opinion, was a talk at a plenary that was fairly strident in its criticism of some proposed protocol choices and the people who had made them. I wonder whether, today, a talk that described some protocols and their proponents as "roadkill on the Information Superhighway" would be taken as intended and lead to serious discussions and change or whether it would be dismissed as disrespectful, its author publicly criticized, and --whether it was the intended effect or not-- the discussion suppressed because people were afraid to subject themselves to similar criticism. I don't know that it is possible to answer the question -- circumstances are always different -- but I believe that thinking about it might help to inform our thinking, reactions, and policies. best regards, john