Re: an apology

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On Mon, 2007-10-01 at 19:44 -0400, brian wrote:
> List,
> 
> I apologise for dragging that crap out for all to see. Unfortunately, 
> the piling on was bothering me a great deal and i dealt with it badly. 
> (Juvenile comments about "cock size" excepted, Jack. I'm not at all 
> insecure about that. Thanks for the concern, though.)
> 
> I feel that my responses here have been completely misunderstood and it 
> simply irritates me to no end. But that's no excuse for dragging this 
> crap out here. FWIW, i *did* try to take this off-list but a very public 
> brawl seemed to be the desired course. That's not what i wanted.
> 
> Having said that, i can't simply let it drop without sending this out to 
> everyone who has witnessed this car wreck. I also apologise for the 
> language i've used. It was innapropriate for a public list.
> 
> No, i was *not* hoping anyone would jump in to save me. My one and only 
> goal was to clarify my point to those who (i felt) had twisted my 
> comments completely out of context. Sorry, but i *really* hate that.
> 
> Rob, i still don't feel that my initial reply deserves an apology. An 
> explanation, a clarification, for sure. But i thought that my later 
> posts explained clearly enough that that was not my intent at all. I 
> think that your refusal to accept my explanation has been unfortunate, 
> to say the least.

Ummm, I'm not looking for an apology. Whatever gave you that impression.
I thought this thread had already died. Time to move on already.

> Email lists (like blogs, IRC, and the like) lend themselves to creating 
> just these sorts of misunderstandings. We should all be aware of this 
> and take responsibility for ensuring that any ill-communications are 
> clarified. I thought i was doing so yet continued to receive abuse. 
> Thus, i lashed out in turn.
> 
> I will, though, apologise for calling you a dickhead. I should have 
> ignored your barbs, however inappropriate and unfounded i felt they 
> were. Out in meatspace, we'd likely get along very well.

Oh don't worry about me, I don't take much on the net personally. I sort
of see email quips along the lines of "your momma" jokes. Most of us
have pretty thick skin around here.

Cheers,
Rob.
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