On 17-Apr-21 05:43, Ole Jacobsen wrote: ... > I think this discussion has assumed that all newcomers are > necessarily looking to get directly involved with a working group > from Day One and therefore need to do a lot of homework and > preparation. I know we keep telling the world that the IETF is "not > a conference" and that "people come here to work," but I see no harm > in simply exploring what the IETF is all about and then perhaps > getting involved in a particular effort after some time, after > having attended a few meetings, and most of all after having made > friends and even discovered who to avoid! :-) All the same, my experience from both mentoring and newcomers' meet-and-greet is that most people first come because of a specific topic, which often (but not always) corresponds to a single WG. Presumably Jay could update one of his surveys to ask newcomers about that. That matches the known fact that only a small fraction of participants are on even the ietf-announce list (and even fewer on this list). Somebody could also do a cluster analysis of WG list subscribers - with about 120 WGs, how many separate populations do we have? ... > If newcomers risk being "snarled at" it is only due to our own > culture and abusive behavior and not due to their lack of preparation. On 17-Apr-21 06:43, Randy Presuhn wrote: ... > The common post-meeting reaction was "you > should have warned me - it was so much more awful than you described." > > It was only because our business depended on it that I was able to > get them to go to any subsequent meetings, but it also led me to > conclude that IETF meetings can be painful experiences for anyone > with a shred of empathy. I may have said this before, but when I first attended an IETF meeting it didn't surprise me, because I was used to attending meetings of physicists. You need to be thick-skinned for that too. Has the IETF got more brutal over the years? I don't think so. That doesn't mean it's OK, but let's be clear that this is a long-standing problem. Do people think the snarling is less of an issue in on-line meetings? Brian