> It is difficult to determine which of the two opinions about slang and contractions is true. Let's compare the two. >>More to the point, educated people will use the slang and >>contractions when they are attempting to convince and win over >>people they believe to be uneducated or inferior. This says everyone. >Not all. Sometimes we are trying to establish a rapport by using This says some do not. > The usual response, in the IETF, is that a complainant could assume that the action (or content of a message) was in good faith. I asked someone else to review a few messages (unrelated to this thread). The messages were described as condescending. One person, with no knowledge of the context or authors? Do you think I am condescending?