Michael Schumacher (schumaml@xxxxxx) wrote: > Dave Neary wrote: > >Anyway - people kind of missed the whole point of me sending that to the > >list... this person mailed me off-list because he saw me as someone > >"safe" to talk to. That's not a nice way to have things on our mailing > >list. What can we do to change that? > > Did you ask them why they think you are "safe" to talk to - and maybe > even more interesting, why others don't seem to be "safe"? Well, talking to a potentially huge audience is always a hurdle, especially when you might feel uncomfortable expressing yourself in a non-native language. And also unfortunately gimp-devel does not have a reputation as a particularily friendly list. People on this list will happily pin you down on your errors as well as brusquely discarding ideas as dumb or non-productive. Ok, I admit that mentioning errors or discussing the pros/cons of an idea is important, but frequently I am bothered by the tone of these responses. Ok, this is a bit of a rant and I am unsure on how to turn this into a productive mail (except repeating known recipes on how to write good mails). So please bear with me :-) Bye, Simon -- Simon.Budig@xxxxxxxxxxx http://www.home.unix-ag.org/simon/