On Fri, October 10, 2008 15:25, Mark Blackwell wrote: > Well there is in my opinion a big difference between a verbal fight (which > tends to get personal, involves name calling and insults) and a healthy > disagreement on an adult level. Sure there is, but in my experience people place the line at somewhat different points, and deal with people who sometimes cross the line a little differently afterwards. So you still need a fair bit of tolerance for boundaries different from your own. And of course some people make solo human-wave attacks over-the-top, too :-). -- David Dyer-Bennet, dd-b@xxxxxxxx; http://dd-b.net/ Snapshots: http://dd-b.net/dd-b/SnapshotAlbum/data/ Photos: http://dd-b.net/photography/gallery/ Dragaera: http://dragaera.info