On Thu, Apr 01, 2021 at 08:20:59PM -0700, Benjamin Kaduk wrote: > Stepping back to a more abstract level, the most respectful way that I know > of to have a discussion when there are strongly conflicting views is to > take an approach that produces messages structured roughly [...] That works only when there's actually room for debate. Once the disagreement is over matters of in-group orthodoxy, direct logical argument ceases to be effective. Only satire or redicule (the emperor has no clothes) can sometimes penetrate the aura of orthodox conviction, to at least make the orthodox uncomfortable. Though one should also be prepared for anger and pitchforks. Cognitive dissonance can be a risky thing to provoke. For me, overt policing of what is allowed to be expressed, rather evokes the Soviet Union's pervasive and brutal hypocrisy that enforced conformity to dogmatic truths that were plainly at odds with reality. Indeed the conflict between the truths and reality was an essential feature of the system. True loyalty to the party demands that the truth be whatever the party says it is today. Lloyd's evocation of Orwell is entirely apt, for what is truly Orwellian, is not mere autocratic rule, but rather enforcement of unquestionable dogma that binds one to the collective. The present dogmas are for now somewhat more benign, we are expected to believe that making a non-trivial subset of existing contributors rather uncomfortable with the new normal, perhaps to the point of exclusion, is warranted by the ideal of being more inclusive of some hypothetical set of future contributors, who (rather questionably in the eyes of sceptics) were somehow deterred not by the obvious barriers of educational opportunities, employment opportunities, wealth, ... but rather because of the IETF's technical jargon. This strains credulity, but one is expected to believe what the party believes, and questioning it is taken to prove that one is in fact a traitor to the cause (a bigot who secretly or otherwise aims to exclude those groups). The result is unquestionably exclusionary, but excluding "those sorts" of people must surely be OK, after all they stand in the way of inclusion. I posit that more potential contributors will be lost on this long march than will ever be gained by whatever comfort some new recruits to the cause find in new jargon, purged of the sins of the past. I have no proof of this, it is a personal conviction. Others surely share it, and are likely feeling similary deterred from participating. So yes, I do find the proposed language policing Orwellian, and satire and ridicule more than deserved. For the record, I have no prejudice against any groups of people who'd like to participate in the IETF, and have no issue with an expectation of professional discourse. I do take issue with the notion that entirely out of context we need to expend precious IETF energy to seek out prejudice in technical jargon, atone for our sins, and be hyper-vigilant in our commucation lest it be possible for someone somewhere to read something other into them than their well-established technical meanings. Yes language evolves, and is said in polite society now, is not the same as it was decades or longer ago. This happens quite naturally, and there is little need for a formal registry of taboos to demonstrate our openness. If the text of an I-D is outside a WG's accepted lexicon, corrections will be suggested during the process, and the language in documents will naturally track language norms over time. What's objectionable is explicit policing of language by a select group of experts who can tell us what to think and how to think it. The CoC is presumably clear that professional conduct is expected, and harassment, bullying, ... are not tolerated, and all are welcome to participate. That should be quite enough. -- Viktor.