OK. If you're bad at talking to people (since people come with misconceptions although you could easily change that), as someone who doesn't only speak for himself, you should just not talk to people. It's also not just me, many people have the same problem with you. I guess it's you against the world. Let's see if the rest of the team is aware of your behavior, and --in case they have the courage to approve my message or at least reply--if they approve of it (BTW, why don't you CC them, if you are so sure your behavior is OK?). I have thick skin (mind you, some people that have messeged me don't as much, and are still upset about your attacks and were in tears), and I don't care what you say and do if you take responsibility for your actions-- which you have to do since you not only speak for yourself only, but for other people as well. On Thu, Nov 15, 2018, 13:22 Alexandre Prokoudine < alexandre.prokoudine@xxxxxxxxx> wrote: > Hi Niccolo, > > There is a certain thing I'm rather horrible at - trying to a have a > conversation with people who come with preconceptions about something they > are not qualified to make judgments of and unwilling to learn before > drawing conclusions. > > When stumbling upon your message that by not setting dates to releases we > tell users to "f*** off" (which you later edited away), I should have kept > my mouth shut. Nor should I have replied to your continuos verbal abuse > containing expletives. > > I am truly and genuinely sorry about that. > > Alexandre > > чт, 15 нояб. 2018 г., 14:48 Niccolo Brogi <nkkollaw@xxxxxxxxx>: > >> Hello. >> >> TLDR: >> Alexandre attacks GIMP critics around the internet implying that he's a >> developer of GIMP and represents GIMP, using language and doing things that >> are completely inappropriate for his (self-proclaimed?) role, which makes >> the whole GIMP team look like crap for no reason. >> >> FULL: >> >> A little bit of a backstory (which you can skip if in a hurry): I've had >> a couple of unpleasant exchanges with Alexandre. Our latest exchange is >> https://www.reddit.com/r/linux/comments/9vneh8/gimp_2108_released/e9doqjq >> from the Reddit thread at >> https://www.reddit.com/r/linux/comments/9vneh8/gimp_2108_released/. >> While it started innocently enough, it quickly turned nasty. What triggered >> Alexandre was my opinion that scheduled releases are better than random >> ones, because people like IT administrators might have to upgrade hundreds >> of computers, and being able to plan for that is nice. I think he >> understood I claimed the GIMP development team could and should refactor >> GIMP to GTK3 and release in 6 months (which I never said). Regardless, >> instead of saying "ah, no GIMP is better with rolling release because, bla >> bla bla..." he started attacking me personally--basically saying that I had >> no right to say that because I'm not a GIMP developer (but neither is he >> more on that later). A missed opportunity to learn something: just because >> of his tone, the discussion deviated from that and got uncivil, which is >> what I observed always happens with him when he exchanges ideas with people >> that have unapproved opinions. >> >> I tend to be blunt and ignore political correctness. Add that to perhaps >> getting passionate or even emotional about stuff, and to be honest >> sometimes I do get harsh replies and have to rephrase things I didn't say >> nicely enough. However, exchanges with Alexandre are a totally different >> beast. >> >> Why? A while after posting the comments I talked about above I started >> getting PMs of "solidarity" from other users that Alexandre attacked around >> Reddit. For instance, I was given permission to include: >> >> >>> A day or two ago I dared criticize GIMP [...] and that alexlg guy >> came off the ropes so hard I was literally in tears over it. Just wanted to >> tell you how validating it was to see you jousting over the exact same >> ground with him just a few days earlier. >> >> Another message: >> >>> [...] He even went so far as to mention me by name in another thread >> entirely, basically calling me a whiny baby, once enough people had >> dogpiled that he was forced to slightly change his stance on something. >> Even if you win, you lose... >> >> Because he implies that he's a GIMP developer--by saying stuff like "oh, >> you don't develop GIMP, you can't say anything bad about it", or using "we" >> in connection with the GIMP dev team (with the word "dev" being important >> here)--he seems to get some sympathy from fellow users, because what kind >> of piece of shit attacks volunteers that create awesome free stuff for >> people (which I agree with). It really upset me when I found out that he's >> not at developer at all, but contributes in non-technical ways. This is bad >> not only because I can excuse his attitude from a developer but not from >> someone that writes articles on Facebook while pretending to be a developer >> to please his ego, but because he doesn't get banned from communities just >> because he implies that he's in the dev team. >> >> I think that if Alexandre's job is to "market" GIMP, not only he's doing >> a horrible job, but he's being detrimental to the project. It's easy to >> relate to people that agree with you, they're already passionate GIMP >> users! Those that have some kind of issues are the ones to really talk to, >> because you can explain things to them and since GIMP is an awesome project >> you can change their mind or make them more informed, and turn a critic >> into a passionate GIMP user (or even evangelist). In addition, pretending >> to be in the dev team is good for his ego, but really bad for the dev team, >> since it just gives the impression that GIMP devs are entitiled assholes. >> >> I'm aware that this email might not only fail to help stop Alexandre from >> attacking people, but also cause more attacks towards me since I would >> assume you sympathize with him, but so be it. Maybe (just maybe) you guys >> are not aware of what's going on and don't actually agree with this >> behavior, and (just maybe) you can get Alexandre to change his attitude >> into one that is more productive and appropriate for someone who either >> does or claims to represent the GIMP team. >> >> >> Niccolo. >> -- >> Niccolo. >> > -- Niccolo. _______________________________________________ gimp-developer-list mailing list List address: gimp-developer-list@xxxxxxxxx List membership: https://mail.gnome.org/mailman/listinfo/gimp-developer-list List archives: https://mail.gnome.org/archives/gimp-developer-list
