DEBIAN: How to make deb files with make install???

[Magma Baba <hippiesoul@xxxxxxx>]

Hi,

well - the questions behind my other question leads to this one: how
can I "make install" my own deb files from php sources, with my own
directory layout and with all dependencies, so it will be easy to
install them on a clean debian-31r0a-i386-netinst-kernel2.6 image?

I also want to avoid that "make install" writes into httpd.conf - ok,
I know, I must learn how "make" works and the autoconf tools, I am in
the process of doing just this... 

there are some packagers out there - where can I learn, how they do
it?

THANKS!!! 

Baba