You're not going to find a comparison of distros. From time to time someone tries to write such a thing, but even these occasional efforts are quickly out of date and therefore unhelpful. As I'm sure has been said here over and over, distros are very much a matter of personal choice. There is, and will never be, a definitive answer about "which is better," or "which one is better for me." As for reading, may I point out that I provided you suggested reading which you spurned? You're, of course, welcome to spurn me, but you are not then in a position to say you've not received an answer. Just because you might not get an answer you like doesn't mean you haven't been answered.