Its embarrassing,Lets just say make sure to check which IP address you are sending packets to before worrying it is not bouncing in the LAN, I had accidentally set the wrong destination.
And also highly recommend tcpdump for finding these issues, took me 2 minutes after tcpdumping the traffic to realise the packets had the wrong destination address.
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