On Fri, 14 Sep 2018 13:18:12 +0000 Martin Mueller <martinmueller@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > I have followed this list for a couple of years, have benefited > several times from quick and helpful advice, and wonder whether all > this code of conduct stuff is a solution in search of a problem. No, it's not. Talk to anyone outside the mainstream in a way that it would be costly, in money or safety, for them to proclaim their differences from the rooftops. > My > grandchildren were taught that “please and thank you sound so > nice .... manners are important, be polite” sung to the tune of Frère > Jacques. They don’t always remember it, but a longer poem wouldn’t > help. And indeed, if everybody were taught these things and lived by them, including not saying bad stuff about groups of people, not making jokes about groups of people, and calling people what they want to be called, there would be no need at all. But there are people who think that a Geek gathering is a really good place to grope females. There are people who have no problem piling on the unfortunate, perhaps because their misfortunes are God's punishment for their sins (then why not be nice and leave the punishment to God?). There are those who just love to cause trouble. There are really bad people out there, and we need to define what's allowed and what's not so these people can't cause damage, and that's why we have CoCs. As far as behavior in other venues, I'm sure there are people out there who would object to some of the stuff in some of my books. I've tried my best to make my books unhurtful, but truth be told, if my books (which don't name or resemble anyone on this list) run afoul of the CoC, I'd have to resign from the list. I suggest treading very carefully when discussing, in the Postgres CoC, peoples' behavior in other venues. SteveT Steve Litt September 2018 featured book: Quit Joblessness: Start Your Own Business http://www.troubleshooters.com/startbiz
