Hi. Thinking about Pete's comments (with which I agree), and some other comments made late in the BOF, an observation: There are lots of places in the world with archaic laws affecting personal behavior and relationships that we generally find unacceptable. In some of those places, they are not enforced, have not been enforced for decades (or much longer), and it is clear that any attempt to enforce them would result in political outrage even though it is hard to get rid of them. In other places, they either are enforced or their enforcement is only a matter of a small shift in the political winds or some politician or lae enforcement entity looking for an excuse to harass an individual or group. Places where the problem is tied to laws or rules created recently have to be treated as part of the second group, at least until a _lot_ of experience accumulates. The two cases may be hard to distinguish from a distance, but they are very different. In the first case, we might well want to avoid meeting there, and make a statement about our reasons for doing so, in order to join with others to create economic of social pressure for change. Or we might want to deliberately go there in order to be supportive of local communities. Getting that choice right depends on input from people who are local and listening to that input very carefully. IMO, it is also a decision that should be made openly and in consultation with the IETF community and not in secret by a non-transparent IAOC and/or Meetings Committee, both because that is the right thing to do and because whatever message we want to deliver is likely to be much more effective if it has clear community support. The second, especially if it puts members of our community (or anyone who attends with them) at risk of criminal or other types of harsh treatment, falls into Pete's category that I would describe as "don't even think about it" (at least I hope that is consistent with his remarks). I actually have mixed feelings about Ted's suggestion that everyone else leave their families home too. On the one hand, it would help make a point and spread the pain around. On the other, it would seem a far better option for everyone who is concerned about the problem --and everyone who can be educated enough between now and meeting 100 to care-- to stay home and participate remotely. If that were to wreck the budget or cause other real pain to either the venue or the IAOC, I think we could at least be assured that it wouldn't happen again. But I really hope that we can make whatever changes are needed to prevent us from _ever_ getting to that point. Note that I have not expressed an opinion above about whether Singapore, or anywhere else that we are scheduled to go or might contemplate, falls into the first category, the second, or, in other cases, neither. I don't have enough information, someone local has said what amounts to "first category" and I think we need to put some community effort into figuring that out. What upset me is that the situation there caught us by surprise but I think we need to move past that, figure out what to do about that meeting, and, most important, make sure we learn from the situations, both in terms of not repeating mistakes and about the value of sufficient transparency that the IAOC can obtain and take advantage of community knowledge. john