Hello, Thanks for bringing this up. On Wed, Dec 23, 2020 at 09:14:00PM -0600, Felipe Contreras wrote: > Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason wrote: > > > > On Wed, Dec 23 2020, Felipe Contreras wrote: > > > > > * Using welcoming and inclusive language > > > -* Being respectful of differing viewpoints and experiences > > > +* Being tolerant of differing viewpoints and experiences > > > * Gracefully accepting constructive criticism > > > * Focusing on what is best for the community > > > * Showing empathy towards other community members > > > > [I happen to be on the PLC, and I'm not speaking for the PLC, just > > myself] > > > > Generally speaking, and not just commenting on this specific patch: I'm > > not in principle against us forking the upstream CoC if we as a project > > & community deem that a worthy trade-off for whatever reason. > > > > But in the case of this specific patch, (and I'm focusing on points not > > already raised by others): > > > > 1. The specific wording you're changing is something that changed in the > > CoC from version 1.4 (which we adopted) to upstream's 2.0. > > > > My reading of the 2.0 wording is that it contradicts your > > interpretation, it talks about "being respectful of differing > > opinions". > > I don't see how the change from "differing viewpoints" to "differing opinions, > viewpoints" contradicts my interpretation. > > > If the CoC means to enforce something about privately held views as > > you seem to suggest (and not just behavior in public), > > No, that's not necessarily what I'm suggesting. > > Let me try again: > > 1. Respecting differing opinions is an internal matter. You can't > really do it, even if you want to. Also, it can't be enforced, > because nobody can know if you are actually doing it or not. > > 2. Behaving respectfully of differing opinions is an external matter. > You can do it, even if you don't really respect an opinion, you can > act as if you do. It can be enforced, because others can see how > you behave. > > Even if the CoC is trying to enforce #2, it's still not desirable to do > so. > > Now, it's debatable whether or not "being respectful" is taking about #1 > or #2, I don't think it particularly matters, since #1 is asking for > something impossible, and #2 is asking to lie. Either way it's not good. > > > then it seems like a paradox to me that it also asks participants > > to be respectful of differing opinions. > > I don't see how "views" or "opinions" alter the argument. > > > To be clear I don't agree with your reading of it. I'm just > > suggesting that any proposed updates to the CoC that rely on reading > > specific intent into the wording therein attempt to do the legwork of > > convincing this ML to accept the proposed change in a way that > > provides more context for the change. > > It is not my reading; it's literally saying "being respectful". The word > "respect" has an established meaning, and it doesn't matter if they are > asking to actually *be* respectful (#1), or merely *show* respect (#2); > both are a problem. > > So at the very least it's asking to show respect. > > What is your reading? Does your reading not imply showing respect? > > > Discussing that upstream has changed the relevant part from A to B, > > but we're proposing a change from A to C seems highly relevant. > > Yes, it is relevant, and I will contact upstream about it, but even if > they deny the change, what part of the rationale is not correct? > > Many more people with a lot more knowledge about the philosophy of > freedom of speech weighted in the University of Cambridge debate, and > the exact same rationale applies here. > > > 2. The CoC has official translations into a bunch of languages: > > https://www.contributor-covenant.org/translations/ > > > > So I think that even if we deem a git.git-specific change to the CoC > > to be worthwhile losing a 1=1 mapping between our version and those > > translations should give us pause since we'd be less inclusive to > > non-native English speaking contributors of the project. > > > > Furthermore, I think a really basic sanity check on any specific > > reading or interpretation of the CoC is to see if also holds true if > > you read some of the official translations. > > Yes, that is a good point. > > This is why usually it's a good idea to look back at the etymology of > a word. > > In both words the etymology goes back to Latin, and since I speak > Spanish I can grasp pretty clearly what is meant in the four cases > {English,Spanish}{respect,tolerance}. > > From my point of view it's really simple: > > a. Respect: hold in high regard > b. Tolerance: endure > > Whether it's "respect" (English), or "respeto" (Spanish), doesn't really > change the meaning. Same with "tolerance" and "tolerancia". > > > In the language I speak natively this reading of "respect" doesn't > > agree with your interpretation. > > We would need to see which interpretation you are talking about. > > One example to show the difference is that you are supposed to hold in > high regard (respect) your parents, or the King, whereas in a Thanksgiving dinner > you are supposed to endure (tolerate) your uncle talking about conspiracy > theories. > > These are of course culturally-specific examples. But I hope you get the > point. This is rather sensitive issue. I think there are other two things that are often conflated: respect for views and opinions and respect for people. It is certainly true that respecting people cannot be enforced as much as respecting opinions cannot be. However, it is shown that not behaving respectfully to people stifles constructive discussion (eg. speech against ad-hominem arguments). What you can enforce is that people who do not behave respectfully to other participants of discussion are excluded from the discussion. Note: it is shown that under specific circumstances respectful behavior is not required for constructive discussion - on 4chan all users are anonymous and can easily express totally opposite view from one post to the next, and respectful behavior is not required to have a constructive discussion. Git is not hosted on 4chan, however. On the other hand, showing respect to useless views or ideas stifles constructive discussion as well. Useless ideas should be pointed out as such and discarded. The reason why respect to ideas is often part of code of conduct is likely religion. There are precious few people who hold religious beliefs and at the same time encourage scrutiny of religion. For the vast majority of religious people it seems religion is something to be followed blindly, and view the religion as integral part of their person. Then any doubt about the religion is viewed as doubt about their very person. Until people are mature enough to have constructive debate about religion I think CoC should simply ban religious topics from places which are dedicated to technical discussion such as this mailinglist. That is a reasonable way to sidestep the issue. Thanks Michal
