On 2020-12-23 at 14:46:56, Derrick Stolee wrote: > On 12/23/2020 1:17 AM, Felipe Contreras wrote: > > As many argued; respect cannot be manufactured at will. If you don't > > respect an idea (for example that the Earth is flat), then it doesn't > > matter how hard you try; you still will not respect it. > > ... > > > * Using welcoming and inclusive language > > -* Being respectful of differing viewpoints and experiences > > +* Being tolerant of differing viewpoints and experiences > > * Gracefully accepting constructive criticism > > * Focusing on what is best for the community > > * Showing empathy towards other community members > > As mentioned in 5cdf230 (add a Code of Conduct document, 2019-09-24): > > This patch adapts the Contributor Covenant Code of Conduct. As opposed > to writing our own from scratch, this uses common and well-accepted > language, and strikes a good balance between illustrating expectations > and avoiding a laundry list of behaviors. It's also the same document > used by the Git for Windows project. > > It is highly recommended to stick to the widely-used and carefully > crafted phrasing. I am also strongly in favor of keeping the commonly used wording. If you feel that wording is inappropriate, it would be better to have the change adopted upstream. > Specifically, "Being respectful" is different from "Have respect", which > negates your argument for changing this word. We can only enforce what > is evidenced by actual communication, not the internal lives of community > members. > > I could just as easily argue that it is possible to be tolerant without > being respectful. I agree with this. I should also point out that the situation at a university is different than the situation on this list. A university is a large institution which is dedicated to the pursuit of learning and in which one may find a variety of ideas. Sometimes those ideas (both past and present) will be offensive, but they are a part of learning more about the world. We may tolerate those ideas as existing and being subject to critical analysis, but ultimately reject them and have little respect for them. On the other hand, many people work on Git or other open source projects as part of their job duties. As such, this is a professional environment for many contributors. In a professional environment, we need to be respectful of people who are different than us. We are aiming to have a common goal, which is to build a great version control system, and to have a coherent group of people who are willing to join together in that endeavor and best meet the needs of a diverse, multicultural base of users. The connotation I have of "tolerate" is "to suffer". I tolerate things which are undesirable but unavoidable. In a healthy community, we try to minimize suffering due to others. I am respectful of the fact that my colleagues may have different religious or cultural beliefs than I do and I try to consider those beliefs, such as considering their holidays when I ask someone to switch an on-call shift or schedule a meeting. That can be a neutral or positive experience for all involved; no suffering need occur. So I think the original Code of Conduct is more consistent with producing the positive, healthy environment we're looking for and best meeting our users' needs, and as a result, I don't agree at all that it should be changed. I will ask that I not be CC'd on future replies to this thread; I will read them on the list if necessary. Thanks. -- brian m. carlson (he/him or they/them) Houston, Texas, US
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