Problem: I want to avoid recursively fetching submodules when I run a `fetch` command, and instead defer that operation to the next `submodule update`. Essentially I want `fetch.recurseSubmodules` to be `false`, and `get submodule update` to do exactly what it does with the `--remote` option, but still use the SHA1 of the submodule instead of updating to the tip of the specified branch in the git modules config. I hope that makes sense. The reason for this ask is to improve/streamline workflow in parent repositories. There are cases where I want to quickly fetch only the parent repository, even if a submodule changes, to perform some changes that do not require the submodule itself (yet). Then at a later time, do `submodule update` and have it automatically fetch when the SHA1 it's updating to does not exist (because the former fetch operation for the submodule was skipped). For my case, it's very slow to wait on submodules to recursively fetch when I only wanted to fetch the parent repo for the specific task I plan to do. Is this possible right now through some variation of configuration?
