aplaymidi causes pa_stream_writeable_size() failed - connection terminated

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alsa-project/alsa-utils issue #232 was opened from symdeb:

How to reproduce:
1. Plain Ubuntu 23.04 desktop with kernel 6.5rc7 and ALSA UMP sequencer enabled.
2. Insert a MIDI 2.0 UMP capable device 
3. play a video with the "video" application.
4. run aplaymidi -l or palaymidi --version
5. Error appears.
Unplug the device  
Wait for about 30 seconds (this is important, sooner the error will appear
Repeat step 3 and 4 . The error won't occur.

![image](https://github.com/alsa-project/alsa-utils/assets/19564066/9bd6e993-be47-4715-8e6c-5f2a2242027c)

Issue URL     : https://github.com/alsa-project/alsa-utils/issues/232
Repository URL: https://github.com/alsa-project/alsa-utils